Where do you draw the line with boyfriends and their ex girlfriends?
My boyfriend and I have been together 6 months, however in the last month he's started talking to his ex again. She lives in florida (we're in england) so I know it could be worse, but he talks a lot, always signed on msn to talk to her, facebook messages, the lot. We've discussed our future many times, and everything was going amazing until she came along and at times he says he isn't talking to her when I know he is and he refuses to talk about the issue as he says i don't trust him if I have to ask because he loves me with all his heart. But, I can't help but have my doubts. Even without face to face contact you still have the emotional involvement, what should i do?
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1 :
You have 2 choices: 1. Realize he's there (with you) and she's in Florida, thousands of miles away. She's no threat to you.... she's a f--king internet image. Go to the mature corner of your mind, and realize he's a doofus, but he's YOUR doofus; and the bimbo in Florida can't hurt you. 2. Dump his @$$. TAKE YOUR PICK!!!!
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If that situation makes you uncomfortable then you should ask him to lessen the amount of time he spends talking to her. If he can't do that for you, then maybe you need to reevaluate your relationship. He should be fine with not talking to her as much to make you happy. I don't think it has anything to do with trust, honestly. He'd unconsciously do the same thing (get a little jealous), so just talk to him about it and let him know how you feel. He should respect your wishes.
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